"HAES is a fucking joke. Be fat, that's fine, that's your life choice. However you need to quit spreading lies that being fat is perfectly healthy. It's not, but by spreading those lies you're hurting people. I'd be angry at any movement that encouraged smoking claiming that it's healthy and consequence free, and that's why I'm mad at the HAES movement.
If you believe you can be fat and healthy, please look around. How many old fat people do you see? I mean old, past their 60s.
Also I get messages from fat women on OKCupid all the time. I hope they find a partner, I do, but I make no apologizes for not being attracted to fat women. None. I like a woman with self control."